how to get back with your ex? Well, the best way to go about it is to ignore him/her totally. Do not satisfy your ex by being the victim and allowing yourself to be at his/her mercy. Of course, you love your ex and you want to please him/her all the time, especially if you are trying to win him/her back for good. But there is a certain technique to go about it and it will not be the easy way. You really have to make your ex realize that you are highly valuable and still worth giving another chance.